Boudoir photography is an art form that thrives on vulnerability and empowerment. It’s natural to have questions or concerns that may seem embarrassing to ask, but trust me, as a boudoir photographer with years of experience, there’s nothing too weird or awkward for me to address. Here are some commonly asked boudoir questions that you might hesitate to bring up:

What if I am on my period during my boudoir session?

Your comfort and confidence are my top priorities. If you’re on your period during your session, it’s completely okay. A lot of people come in during their period and still rock their session. I recommend using a discreet collection method like a tampon or cup. Just let me know, and we can work around it to ensure you feel at ease and beautiful. Yes, I will tell you if I can see your tampon string and give you the chance to tuck it away. 

Can I incorporate kink into my boudoir session?

Your boudoir session is all about expressing your authentic self. If incorporating elements of kink is part of your vision, we can discuss how to tastefully and artfully capture that side of you. Using props like cuffs, latex, collars, and spreader bars can be so fun. Shoot me an email or DM so we can chat about your ideas!

Can I get my bruises or acne edited out?

Absolutely. I don’t edit bodies to look different, but if you have something temporary like a bruise or breakout, I am happy to remove it. Please let me know during your session if you have something specific you’d like taken out. If your bruises were put there on purpose, let me know to keep them in(;

What happens if me or my partner gets an erection during a couples boudoir session?

This is SO normal and almost always happens. I mean, come on, you’re in next-to-nothing and kissing a bunch- yeah, you’ll probably be turned on. Rest assured that professionalism and respect are paramount during the session. Any natural reactions will be handled discreetly and respectfully to maintain a comfortable atmosphere for all involved. I try to keep the mood light, and if we need to take a breather, just let me know.

I have a weird pose idea… Can we do it?

Feel free to share your pose ideas, no matter how unique they may seem. This is your session, and I’m here to bring your vision to life, even if it’s unconventional. I’ve photographed people doing some crazy sh*t, so I’m down for almost anything.

I found some lingerie I love, but it’s crotchless. Is that okay?

The best sets usually are haha. Just give me a heads up when you put it on, so I don’t accidentally get a full frontal crotch shot, and we are all good. It is rarely an issue, and I can easily pose you in a way that won’t expose your bits.

Do I have to wax or shave before my session?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer to this question on grooming preferences. Your comfort is key, so feel free to choose what makes you feel most confident, whether that includes waxing, shaving, or leaving as is. I have clients come in completely bald or full bush, and they all look sexy af + leave feeling confident af. 

Do you photograph people that look like me?

Hell yes. You’re hot. I welcome clients of all shapes, sizes, ages, and backgrounds. Clients from 20 years old to 65 years young have been in front of my camera. I have photographed XXS bodies to 5X bodies. All bodies are sexy and worthy of being photographed. 

Do you photograph trans women?

Absolutely. Boudoir is inclusive of all gender identities, and I am committed to creating a safe and welcoming space for everyone to celebrate their beauty and authenticity. I would be honored to be a part of helping you feel confident in your body. 

How spicy can we get during the photoshoot?

I love alllllll the spice. During couples boudoir sessions, I just ask that bottoms remain on both partners at all times. (Implied nudity can be done! Just ask!) I do not photograph erotica. If you have specific ideas + you’re not sure where they land on the scale, just ask!

Can I be topless or fully nude during my session?

Hell yeah. I love taking artful nudes. If you’re doing a couples session, I ask that you wear nude bottoms for implied nudity. For solo sessions, nudity is good with me. 

Feel free to ask any other boudoir questions you may have; there are no awkward or taboo topics when it comes to boudoir photography. I’ve had the privilege of photographing over 100 boudoir sessions, and I’ve seen and heard it all. Your comfort and confidence are my top priorities in creating stunning and empowering boudoir images. Let’s do this.